What is “Active Listening”?

Active listening means an open, respectful and empathetic attitude towards the conversation partner, as well as the content of the conversation.

Active listening – as an essential tool of communication – makes it its task to better understand the interlocutor and is thus considered the most important discipline of conducting a conversation. Above all, it is about listening attentively to one’s counterpart, agreeing with him and, if necessary, asking questions.

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The key elements of active listening

The founder of talk therapy in medical psychology, Carl Ransom Rogers, sees three elements as the basis for “Active Listening”:

  1. An empathetic and open attitude
  2. The appearance of the interlocutor should be authentic and similar
  3. Offering acceptance and positive regard


  • The interlocutors can better respond to each other
  • Active listening forms the sensible argumentation basis for the further course of the conversation
  • Misunderstandings become less frequent
  • Building a level of trust


  • Creating a good atmosphere
  • Understand the mindset of his counterpart
  • Engage with the person you are talking to
  • Correspond emotionally
  • Animate your counterpart to an action
  • Understand the opinion and motives of the interlocutor and respect them
  • Repeat important points, as well as thoughts of the interlocutor

Means with which to signal active listening

A distinction is made between verbal and nonverbal means that can be used to signal to your interlocutor that you are actively listening.

Verbal means

  • “Yes”, “I understand” and so on signal agreement
  • “Could you please explain that to me again in a little more detail?! – signals a follow-up question.
  • Restraint of one’s own opinion
  • Do not interrupt the person you are talking to, let them finish.

Nonverbal means

  • Keep eye contact
  • Make notes if necessary
  • A nod
  • Keep your eyes open

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